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Wednesday, May 23, 2007
dahlia
May 23, 2007 7:11:32 PM
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hello, epiphany
It's day 5 of the cleanse, and there you are. Well, one of you, I assume - I suspect there may be more of you out there, waiting for the right moment to appear - when I'm ready. You showed up in slightly less dour trappings than you might have, even a few months ago. That was interesting in and of itself. But this time, rather than under the guise of dysfunction, you were inner being coming to sit down at the kitchen table for a chat. Finally. Mugs in hand, we faced each other and sat in silence, all the communication being non-verbal, running behind the scenes in a river ambling sweetly on the back forty. I asked you, "Why?" And you answered, "You know. You've always known. It's right there, rather than deeply hidden underneath layers of pain. You can pick it up and look at it." So I did. Quietly. No drama. Just reminiscences. Speculation on my part, followed by substantiation. Oh. That's why. Jealousy, abandonment, approval-seeking, neediness, unworthiness - just a mirage, a facade. A story. To let go of.
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You are not on earth to make things happen. You are not on earth to spread the love. You are not on earth to make it a better place or to learn acceptance of the things you cannot change. You are not on earth to find your soul mate or your purpose. You are not on earth to put the needs of others before your own. And you are most certainly not on earth, Debra Schanilec, to suffer, pay penance, be tested, or judged. Did I leave anything out? You are on earth, Debra, because in your loftiest state of being, perched high above the wonderment, at the pinnacle of your glory, you wondered what it would be like, even fleetingly, to believe in limits. You sage - The Universe Thoughts become things... choose the good ones!® © www.tut.com ® ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* And when you can grasp this, Debra, from within the illusions, you will also grasp how unlimited you truly are. (And we'll probably never hear the end of it...)
Deb Schanilec
Connected and Committed relationship transformation strategist.
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